So you love Holidays?

Yes this is the time of year that we start planning for parties and, weight loss and all that at the same time.  Well , let the craziness begin! Happy Holidays!

Ladies Warning Proceed with caution!

Watch "Ray J - I Hit It First (Kim Kardashian & Kanye West Diss)" on YouTube
Ladies if you have not heard the new song by Ray J dedicated to Kim Kardashian and Kanye West then click the link above. I must admit that this song is quite catchy, it is a booty shaker/twerk song!
But ladies when I say, to choose a guy but proceed with caution this is one of the examples why!  First of all, no one wants someone that is so spiteful that everytime you move on with your life and find a little happiness they have to put out a video of your personal business or a song, write comments on social media to be able to get some kind of reaction from you. To me it seems like, instead of being what you consider an adult you are a child because this is truly childish. How dare you take a loving relationship with secret moments and Trust and turn it into something so ugly! No Kim is not a angel but she doesn't deserve to be ridiculed by Ray J every time you turn around. What this says to ordinary people is ladies do not video tape any actions that you may live to regret later. Find out more about your partner like his real name, what he does for a living. Meet his family, go to his home observe his surroundings before you get intimate with him. And I really can't just say ladies this goes for men in as well. It's crazy that people get in their feelings and start to bash there once love of their lives when the relationship is over. Get over it sometimes it could be the best thing you never had! Like the saying said what God has for you he has for you.
Sorry for me there are way too many options to stay stuck about one! When you act this way what does it truly say about you. Well I can think of a few things: 1 you truly are not over the relationship, you are also the one that was hurt, someone is throwing it up in your face, you have not moved on, you need closure and it is not being given to you.
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Brief overview!

I have not always been my cocky, sure I'm fabulous self! I too go through my ups and downs on life, love, body shape!  As a matter of fact I was one of the kids that couldn't get the name brands and salon hair do!  My mom worked really hard to provide for me and my sisters. But she like so many people could not afford the off the wall prices the material crap and keep us out the hood!  So you know which one won! You go mom thanks for everything!  Oh can't forget the big guy Thank you Lord! Now that I got that out the way!
I fell into the got to get it by any means category! Hell kids are cruel so (parents don't forget that) you were there before! I had the gift of gab and mind of a man wall street!  (Just get the deal done) Lol! Too look back! Most people were shocked to know my age then because I hung out with older people and not because I thought I was grown! I wanted the jewelry, money and go to all the nice places people my age were not! I enjoyed and felt empowered being able to be in control even when they thought they were! I never was a follower I made my own rules and you either played by them or you were out! 

My confidence grew, I watched how successful people made moves and I mimicked them!   I don't believe in failure so if one thing doesn't work do something different!  Hustle is in my DNA! How many successful people do you know hang out with people who are comfortable with having nothing! Go ahead research! Not many! Why reinvent the wheel!  

Love having my own and the feeling of I did this! I graduated with flying colors and then Graduated again Legal Secretary! For the hell it why not be a career student can't ever learn too much! I have have my Something Naughty business for a long while and I am learning more about about big business everyday! So I must say, "I love the me I am! " All the bumps it took to get here well worth the rewards!