Pleasantly plump, xtra thick stop all of the crap! Thinking making cute names for being FAT will solve your mental and physical issue!

I know I'm going to piss many people off with this post , but I'm a realist!  I have issues with my weight and it's not because of any one thing! It's multiple things!  Stress , no eating healthy, lifestyle, not eating, kids, not exercising the list goes on. 
Truth be told, I was actually skinny my younger years, even after my first child!  I was a dancer and was always on the go! But after I stopped dancing and settled down I found myself not being myself but what I felt I should be for my marriage and for my new life! I didn't even realize the life changing events that kept adding to my issues!  Having more kids not enough time to go and do things, duty stations with just 1 car and no public transportation (ex military wife) . Financial issues and independent status to dependent life! I truly became depressed so clouded in judgment I just shut myself completely off from the world!  No longer Shay, HELL not even Sommer for that matter. 
I went into a deep depression and later postpartum depression and anxiety disorder that I didn't even realize that I had!  I started hating myself and my life! Wanted out! My support system seemed so far away and spread out (family) ,  my best friend  were like my life support!  They had to wake me up and snap me out of it! I was lost God helped turn me around!
So I  would dress up and I was thick and or bbw and all of the other BS names we give it because we didn't want say FAT! Well when I took off my clothes and looked in the mirror I saw rolls, the muffin top, back titties lists goes on. Then to make matters worse I hated the routine that I had to get ready!  All the shapers and contraptions I have to put on to look have I wanted to look! Only to be self conscious about seeing the body shaper if I moved through my clothing. So that further let me know if I was so happy being "thick" why was I trying to hide it?  Truth was I hated it! Hated  looking like the whale in the pictures. The more expensive clothing that was actually limited for plus size. Don't get me wrong there are a few fashion designers that actually make cute clothing for full figured women but, because there is such a small market and you would think it would be huge (because so many people in America are overweight) they know that they can charge inflated prices. Well, I know that I was not going to stay in this situation for long.  1. Because I knew what the mark up was for clothing being a buyer for major companies. 2.  The material would be somewhat cheaper because it was made for a plus size person and it would cost way more money because of the material they had to be used to make the product.
I tried so many things from popular diet trends and weight loss programs and pills, I even considered Liposuction! 

Until now!  I kept seeing post on Facebook about this product called Plexus and I was like they sell too much crap not going to waste more money and time on some more mess! Then company says It's say's that all results are not the same or when you read the fine print average weight loss is 1.000099 a 6week period here is the kicker with diet and exercise! So then what did your product actually do? NOTHING!  I meet some wonderful ladies while at a bridal show and they told me all about I they had the pictures up and they were excited about sharing their stories.  They gave me the Decision maker said it's $12 and a
Take it for 3days in the morning and see what happens!  Well I blow $12 at Burger king so I was like why not!  Well 3days later I was 5pounds lighter. I had energy and I ate what I wanted I didn't eat as much but it was like my mind and body said stop! Crazy as it seems I signed up to sell it! Save money on buying product and make money from all the people who I knew would benefit from it. 
Don't believe it works try it for yourself!  Click here!   It changed my life and I'm on my way to becoming my sexier self!

Positive thinking!

I must say that I have been having a wonderful week. I've a few more pounds lost and made some sales! I LOVE IT! I'm getting paid to lose weight and you can too! I know it sounds a little crazy ! But it's true! I tried this product called PLEXUS SLIM! I saw it on Facebook and then at a bridal show! Trust me with soo much crap out there it's like trust no one! I've tried so many pills,shakes home remedies and nothing really worked or if it did I gained it back before I could enjoy the rewards.

Anyways I know you guys want to know how do I get paid to lose weight! Well I just take Plexus and I get asked what are you taking you look great! I get the big head and say,"I use Plexus" and give them my card.They order on my site or they call me and I place the order! It's that simple!  U starts and chain reaction!  They love the product and they sign up to do the same thing!

Brief overview!

I have not always been my cocky, sure I'm fabulous self! I too go through my ups and downs on life, love, body shape!  As a matter of fact I was one of the kids that couldn't get the name brands and salon hair do!  My mom worked really hard to provide for me and my sisters. But she like so many people could not afford the off the wall prices the material crap and keep us out the hood!  So you know which one won! You go mom thanks for everything!  Oh can't forget the big guy Thank you Lord! Now that I got that out the way!
I fell into the got to get it by any means category! Hell kids are cruel so (parents don't forget that) you were there before! I had the gift of gab and mind of a man wall street!  (Just get the deal done) Lol! Too look back! Most people were shocked to know my age then because I hung out with older people and not because I thought I was grown! I wanted the jewelry, money and go to all the nice places people my age were not! I enjoyed and felt empowered being able to be in control even when they thought they were! I never was a follower I made my own rules and you either played by them or you were out! 

My confidence grew, I watched how successful people made moves and I mimicked them!   I don't believe in failure so if one thing doesn't work do something different!  Hustle is in my DNA! How many successful people do you know hang out with people who are comfortable with having nothing! Go ahead research! Not many! Why reinvent the wheel!  

Love having my own and the feeling of I did this! I graduated with flying colors and then Graduated again Legal Secretary! For the hell it why not be a career student can't ever learn too much! I have have my Something Naughty business for a long while and I am learning more about about big business everyday! So I must say, "I love the me I am! " All the bumps it took to get here well worth the rewards! 

Don't be a lazy lover!

Ever wonder or ask yourself why they cheated? Why sex with you wasn't a most have? I know that sounds harsh but believe it or not sex is supposed to be enjoyed!  This is the one thing you should be wanting to do and it shouldn't be a chore. 
I can say I've had my share of awful sexual partners and it almost ruined sex for me! I mean after them I didn't care if I ever had sex again!  Boy I'm glad that I started better choices! I started first trying to see what Others really saw in me. Then I started to really pay attention to me. What made me feel good and what didn't. Yes, I masturbate and I advise you to do it too! No one knows you better than you! How do you think your partner is going to know? They will just do to you what they think makes you feel good or even worse what they did with their last partner! Here are some tips : 1. Learn to love yourself: get over they I'm too fat, too skinny, butt and breast aren't like the Photoshop model! Secret (theirs are not either) 2. Know what you like and don't like: don't be afraid to tell your partner if something is hurting you! If it doesn't feel good! You should be having sex with someone you trust anyway. 3. Don't just lay there: there are plenty of toys out there for that! Then they don't even need to have you and it's cheaper! 4.Think of sex as a dance: (unless you are rhythm challenged) You should move a grind and the same tempo! Play some music if you can't think of any and rock their world! 5.Shop and add some spice to it don't be afraid to try new things! that

Whose a Naughty Girl? I am that's who!

Hello everyone!
 Welcome to my blog! This will the FIRST of many sexy, and naughty blog posts from me yours truly Ms.Shay Lover!  Many of you are unfamiliar with who I am so let me start by introducing myself! I am a former dancer (Erotic Entertainer) I had been been dancing for 10 years and traveling all over the USA and I must say I was a great life for the most part. I got to meet many interesting people and experience things I never thought about! But believe or not I found myself! No not as if I was lost , but in the sense I didn't truly know my body and the real power it possess.

As a teen I can say I grew up rather fast! I wanted the fast money and jewelry and to party with the glamorous people! That lifestyle gave me a key to that world! It came with good and bad but we will talk about that later! I promise! I can relate to so many women and the issues they are dealing with with Marriage, sex, kids, single parenting, teen mothers, sexual abuse, and depression and weight gain and loss! With this Blog I want to invite you to share your stories openly or Private (just email me) shaylover.naughty.nights@gmail.com say keep anonymous! I love to give advice and I don't know the answer I will ask. I has spent many years Researching Relationships and Sex two of my favorite topics and taking a quite a few courses along the way! So nothing is too Taboo to talk about here!

I have a website that you can purchase all of your Naughty Items! So CUM   Shop with me for your Naughty Pleasures I offer a large range of Adult novelties and gifts! Just to let you know there will be items not on the site that I offer and you can call me and place order! Too many to list so I switch them out from time to time!

Now the sexier you is in reference to my battle with weight and the friends and loved ones and even you my new found friends! I am a Ambassador for Plexus and I know there are tons of Weight loss crap out there that claim to work but take it from me I've tried and failed at most of them! Until Plexus came along! I hooked so you will be able to track my progress and Even connect with me we can be each others motivation! So far I have a good following and want to spread the word something that was advertised actually works! Stop Dieting and enjoy life! Click here!  Ask yourself what if this works? I did and now I am my success story! I will also be posting on a couple of opportunities so that you too can be a success!

Well the a quickie about me! Stay Tuned!
Sommer
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Shay Lover
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